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Ben Thorn was in the prime of his
life. He was fit and healthy, worked as a
skipper on a boat and lived in a bachelor pad with three friends.
The 24 year-old, who played drums in a band, had
everything to live for. So when his family
was told he had died in his sleep on Sep 28 last year they were shocked.
His mother, Veronica Thorn, said:
"Ben’s death shattered my world. At first I thought he must have been
killed in a car accident because he drove quite fast.
"But when the police told me
one of his flat-mates found him dead in bed I just didn’t understand. Police
initially, wrongly, thought his death may have been drugs related."
Ben went to bed in his Hove flat
on a Thursday night and never woke up.
It was three weeks before the
coroner informed his family about how he
died. Mrs Thorn, 48, who lives in
Littlehampton with her husband, Tony, 49, said: "He told us Ben probably
died from long QT syndrome which is a form of the sudden adult death condition.
"I had not heard much about
the syndrome but I found out it was an inherited disturbance in the heart’s
rhythm.
"The
coroner said it was often difficult to detect as there are few signs of it in a
dead heart.
"That is why so many deaths
are recorded as drownings or accidents."
Long QT refers to an extra-long
pause interrupting heart rhythm.
She described how 6ft 2in Ben was
like a gentle giant, was fit and never showed any symptoms of the condition.
He had no blackouts, palpitations or sudden fainting
spells.
It is estimated hundreds of
children and young adults die every year in the UK from sudden adult death. But
people often do not know they have it until it is too late.
It is a common cause of sudden
death, particularly among young school athletes.
Death can happen while doing
exercise but also while the person is asleep.
If detected, it can be managed by
drugs including beta-blockers and by avoiding strenuous sports.
Mrs Thorn said Ben, her youngest
son, loved skateboarding, cycling and the sea.
He grew up helping his dad Tony
with his Skylark Cruises boat business on the River Arun. They planned to buy a
new boat together.
Mrs
Thorn, an accounts clerk, said: "I always said life’s too short but I
didn’t realise it would be so short for Ben. Just when I thought he was in the
safest place, in bed, he died.
"My only comfort is that he
wasn’t ill and he didn’t suffer.
"His death changed who I am.
It has left an enormous gap which I will always try to fill."
Now Ben’s twin sisters, Paula
Mott and Cheryl Seamen, 28, plan to run the London Marathon in April in their
brother’s memory.
They hope to raise at least £2,000 for the
charity Cardiac Risk in the Young (CRY).
Paula, a cardiac technician at St
Richard’s Hospital In Chichester, said: "If Ben was tested for the
condition he could have been treated.
"We want to see all children
tested for long QT while stiIl at school.
"Children who test positive
could be saved through medication
"Corning to terms with Ben’s
sudden death has been difficult. You don’t expect your little brother to go to
bed and not wake up. I can’t help asking why.’'
She said running the marathon was
one of her ambitions and now seemed the perfect time as a tribute to Ben.
A keen runner, she hopes to
complete the race in four hours. Cheryl just
wants to finish the course.
She said: "Before, when
people asked which charity I supported, I never really knew. But now I am
determined to raise money to research long QT syndrome. I have started training
but need to get a lot fitter.’
She described how one of her last
memories of Ben was on her wedding day, six days before he died.
Cheryl, a pharmacy technician at
Southlands Hospital in Shoreharn, said: "It was the day after my daughter
Jasmine's first birthday and the kids were running around making
lots of noise. Ben was good with all ages but children really loved him.’
She was told of his death while
on honeymoon in Fuerteventura.
Paula, Cheryl and brother Gary,
29, are waiting to see if they have inherited long QT syndrome -
Mrs Thorn said: "Ben was
everybody’s friend.
He had a calming effect on people
and never bore a grudge.
"It is too late for him now
but at least we can help others by raising awareness of the condition."
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