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When it was
revealed last week that Rangers signing target Mikel Arteta had overcome a
serious heart defect to become a professional footballer, Andrew Tait needed a
grief filled second to take it in.
The retired
policeman read the news of a healthy young footballer overcoming his heart
disease to live a full and healthy life, and he couldn’t help thinking what
might have been for his own son.
His boy,
Andy, had been an aspiring young footballer, representing Scotland at youth
level and signing for his local professional team as a teenager.
But any
football dreams he or his family had for him died 14 months ago when he suffered
heart failure at the age of just 26.
He had
fallen victim to a heart defect which was most likely developing inside him
since his teenage years when he was at his footballing best.
And though
young Andy eventually chose a career in the police force, young Andy remained a
keen footballer for various local teams in Fife and was well known as a talented
sportsman.
It made the
sudden death of the likeable giant even more unbearable for his devastated
family.
Andrew, 55,
said: “There will never be any normal days for us again.
There will only be days that were better than the last.
Everything has changed for us. To
have such a big seemingly-healthy son die like that, so suddenly and
unexpectedly made it harder to cope with.”
Andrew was
reminded of the overwhelming loss he and his wife Margaret suffered when he read
about the heart problems the £4million rated Rangers target from Barcelona
suffered at an early age.
In contrast
to Andy’s case, Arteta overcame his illness to develop a flourishing career.
Unlike
athletes on the continent, Andy didn’t have access to regular heart tests and
they put his occasional lack of endurance down to over-exertion, like the
thousands of other young lads playing football every week.
It was only
after their son’s death that his family realised he had been showing slight
and almost undetectable signs of the heart defect that would kill him in later
life.
Andy had
been just a few months short of his 27th birthday and was out having
a drink with friends when the illness struck.
He had been complaining of palpitations that night but he and his friends
thought nothing of it.
He died in
his sleep that night.
Weeks later,
his parents were told the incredible news that he had died from heart failure.
Since then,
they have been working tirelessly with the charity Cardiac Risk in the Young
(CRY) to raise money for widespread heart screening for all young athletes.
The couple
said the efforts put into the campaign has helped them work through their grief
in the hope that they might prevent another death like Andy’s.
His father
said: “ Andy was such a wonderful boy. He
was super fit, he was friendly and a joy to be around.
“When he
was playing football in his late teens, there were what, in hindsight, could
have been early signs of his heart disease.
He couldn’t last the 90 minutes and we thought it had been maybe a
cheat infection. Perhaps that was the start of it.
“Had there
been a screening programme, then any heart defect would have been detected.
“ A simple
ECG can detect problems and they can take necessary steps.
If we had thought to do that then he’ still be here.
“We
heard about CRY from a family friend and when we got in touch with them and
found out more information we became aware of how often it’s happening.
We realised it was not just a one-off and was happening all too
frequently, so we decided to get involved to see what we could do to help..
Andy had
been a star player for his school teams in his early teens and played for local
clubs Glenrothes Strollers and Leslie Hearts.
When he left
school at 18, he was snapped up by local First Division side Raith Rovers and
was there for 18 months picking up a Scotland youth cap along the way.
He left
Rovers to take up a career with Fife police and had worked his way to the Drug
Enforcement Squad. He also played
with the police footie team.
His parents
had hoped he would enjoy a successful career and a happy home life.
Andrew
added: “ The whole thing is still devastating for us even after 14 months.
You just think, ’why the hell did this happen?’, and you ask why
can’t things just get back to normal again.
But that will never happen.
“We
can’t go back and change things, it can’t be reversed.
Everything in our family was great and then he died and everything
changed forever.
“You have
to accept it, but it’s so hard. I
lost my big, wonderful son.”
Andrew and
Margaret say their fond memories of Andy help to get them through the hard
times. Andrew added: “He was a great guy, a great footballer and a
wonderful police officer as well.
“He was
the fifth generation of policemen in our family and I was so proud of him – I
still am.
“Sometimes
it can get too much to cope with, birthdays are tough and Christmas was very
hard on all of us.
“I know
this work with CRY is what he would want us to be getting on with and I’m sure
he’d see how important a cause this is.
“At least
four young people die every week due to undetected heart diseases and that is a
frightening statistic to me. More
must be done to screen youngsters for diseases and defects.
“In Italy,
every young sportsman is given a cardiac test each year and if we could do
something like that in Scotland, then a lot of families would avoid this kind of
despair.”
Andy’s
sister, Lisa, 24, is also backing the CRY campaign.
The charity
was set up by parents of young people who suffered loss from sudden death
syndrome and heart defects, and lobbies for cardiac screening across the country
to catch heart defects at an early stage.
The Tait
family is now the charity’s East Coast of Scotland representatives and work at
generating funds and helping raise awareness of the conditions.
Margaret
said that finding the organisation was the thing that helped them through. She
added: “As a mother, when you lose your son, no matter how old he is, it is
like having a part of you ripped out and you feel empty.
There’s always an empty part in me now, but by working with CRY, you
feel like you’re using your grief for a good cause.
“It has
been so vital for us to know that we’re helping others, it has really helped
us to cope with the grief and the pain since Andy died.
“He was a
wonderful boy, but I know that he would have wanted us to do whatever we could
to help others." |