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When Ita and Robert Booth's beautiful teenage
daughter Sarah waved goodbye to her parents on a sunny Saturday afternoon
last June, the couple had no idea that less than 24 hours later, and without
any warning, their youngest child would be dead - a victim of Sudden Adult
Death Syndrome (SAS), a condition that claims the lives of at least 12
apparently fit and healthy young people every week in the UK.
The academically talented Wellington College
pupil, who had ambitions to be a journalist, was just 15-years-old when she
died on June 20 2010. The shocking loss has left Robert, Ita, Sarah's
older sister Claire (20) and brother Owen (17) devastated, yet determined to
raise awareness of an increasingly frequent syndrome that snatches away the
lives of young people in their prime.
"Sarah was just wonderful," says Ita.
"She was like a breath of fresh air. When
she walked into the room, everybody noticed her. She was just a
fabulous girl.
"She was very academic and also sporty. She
loved netball and had achieved grade five at ballet.
"The weekend before her death, Robert and I had
gone to Rome for our 25th wedding anniversary and I remember us saying how
sweet life was. Little did we realise that seven days later our
family would be torn apart."
The events of that terrible night are still
painfully clear for the south Belfast family.
Recalls Ita: "On Saturday June 19 , Sarah
had headed off into town in the afternoon before going on to a sleepover at
a friend's house. She texted me in the early evening to say that she
had bought some new clothes.
"Robert and I went to bed around midnight as
normal. We didn't know that Sarah had texted her sister, Claire
saying that she had a pain in her back. Claire texted back and told her to
lie down.
"At about 4am, the doorbell went. I knew our
son had been out and I hadn't heard him return, so I thought something had
happened to him.
"Robert went downstairs and the policewoman told
him that Sarah was on her way to the Ulster Hospital with a very faint pulse
and no respiratory signs.
"They took us to the hospital and, after a short
while, the dreaded three or four doctors came and told us that they had
tried their best but were unable to save Sarah and that she was dead,
"It wasn't until the next morning that Claire saw
a text that arrived at 2am from Sarah, saying that she had vomited.
"A few days later, the police told us they had
interviewed everyone who was at the house and that there had been nothing
untoward happening. It had been a completely innocent teenage party.
The staff at the coroner's office knew how concerned and upset we were and
were able to tell us within a few weeks that the toxicology report showed no
sign of drugs or alcohol and that Sarah's heart tissue had been sent to
London for further analysis."
It may be almost a year since the tragedy, but for
Ita, a staff officer with the Department for Environment , the pain of
losing Sarah has become worse, not better.
She says: "The suddenness of what happened left us
all in total shock for six months. I felt completely numb and it's
actually worse now that the reality that Sarah is really gone has sunk in.
I haven't been able to go back to work and I don't know if I will ever be
able to. Robert, a business advisor for Invest NI, found it very
difficult to go back.
"After Sarah died, her classmates called quite a
lot and at the beginning I was OK with that because I was numb with shock.
Now I find it really hard and feel almost jealous of them.
"Christmas was so bad that we took ourselves away
to a remote cottage and the four of us tried to get through the days in
front of a wood-burning stove. Robert and I went out an wrote Sarah's
name in the sand and tried to cope as best we could.
The final coroner's report that Robert and Ita
received a few months after Sarah's death confirmed that she had suffered
Sudden Adult Death syndrome. But there was further distress to come.
Even though there was no history of heart disease
in the family, the results from the heart tissue analysis in London came
back with a recommendation that all members of Sarah's immediate family be
screened for heart abnormalities as they suspected her heart may have had an
electrical imbalance and had gone into a dangerous type of arrhythmia (heart
rhythm).
"Everyone was normal apart from Claire, whose heart
showed an abnormality - long QT syndrome (an abnormality of the heart's
electrical syndrome) - where the time between heartbeats is irregular and
sometimes too long. Sarah may have suffered from it as well but we
don't know as it can only be spotted when a heart is actually beating," says Ita.
"The condition can be treated with beta-blockers
but it's made Claire and the whole family very, very scared.
"They also did blood tests and there was an
increased level of an enzyme in Claire's blood and she was immediately
hospitalised on New Year's Day and was monitored for six days.
"An MRI scan also showed an inflammation of the
heart and she was put on an ace-inhibitor and beta-blockers straight away.
She had another EGG recently, which was still abnormal and she has to go for
another MRI scan in a few days to see in the inflammation has gone down.
"As well as her grief for her sister, Claire now
feels that there is a big black could hanging over her head.
"Strangely, when she was younger, Sarah had said
to me a few times that she thought there was something wrong with her heart.
I took her to the doctor and she was given an EGG which turned out normal
and she didn't complain any more after that."
As a tribute to Sarah, her former schoolmates at
Wellington College are running a number of relay teams in the Belfast
Marathon to raise money for the charity CRY (Cardiac Risk in the Young).
And although it will be painful for Ita and the family to see, each runner
will be wearing a T-shirt with Sarah's face printed on the front.

Ita says: "I don't know if we'll be able to bear
it but knowing the sort of girl Sarah was - she would have loved to have her
face on a T-shirt - and we are hoping we will be strong enough to go along
and watch.
"I would love to be able to say that I feel a part
of her is still with me but at the moment I don't, and that makes me feel so
heartbroken. I hope at some time I will be able to feel that, but now,
it's like a part of me died with Sarah and I'd give anything just to feel
her around me."
It was through the bereavement charity Cruse that
Ita first heard about CRY which she says has provided invaluable support for
the whole family.
"My Cruse counsellor told me about the charity and
we contacted them for an information pack.
"They got back to me by email and were fantastic.
Chief executive Alison Cox telephoned me herself.
"We then went to a bereavement day and were able
to talk to other parents who had lost children in a similar way and who
really understood what we were going through.
"There was a husband and wife who were there with
their daughter, Heather. Their other daughter, Carol had died suddenly
while she was sleeping in her bed.
"Claire and Heather arranged to meet and support
each other and they got on really well.
"I'll never be able to come to terms with Sarah's
death and I don't think I'll ever be alright but I hope someday that I'll be
able to learn to cope with the pain.
"I don't like the words 'moving on', but learning
to cope is what I would like to able to do - eventually."
HOW CHARITY WORKS TO IDENTIFY THOSE YOUNG PEOPLE
AT RISK
Founded in 1995, CRY aims to raise awareness of
the risk of undetected cardiac abnormalities in young people and reduce the
frequency of young, sudden cardiac death by working with heart specialists
and with family doctors to establish screening facilities to promote and
protect the cardiac health of our young people.
As well as working with the Department for Health
and others to develop high quality cardiac services, CRY provides
funding to the NHS to help fast-track the complex range of services need
(following a sudden cardiac death, to determine the risk to other family
members.
The charity also runs a regional bereavement
support network and counselling services for families affected.
To contact CRY telephone 01737 363 222 or
email them at cry@c-r-y.org.uk.
Further information about the charity can be found
on their website at: www.c-r-y.org.uk
To contact Cruse Bereavement Care, call: 0844 477
9400 or email: helpline@cruse.org.uk
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