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Tributes have been paid to a
Royal Navy engineer who died suddenly in the night for no clear reason just
weeks before his 21st birthday.
Around 2000 mourners gathered
at St Philip’s church, Mill Road, Romsey, Cambridge on Wednesday for the full
military funeral of Alex “Robbie” Roberts, a popular marine engineering
mechanic who “always had a smile on his face.”
Alex
was at home at his parents’ pub, The Brook, Mill Road, on annual leave when he
failed to wake up on September 29. His death came as a terrible shock to his
many friends, his family and navy colleagues.
Alex’s devastated mother Fiona, 40, said, “He simply went to bed and he never
woke up.
“They have not been able to establish any cause of death, so that’s undergoing
further investigation at the moment. We just have no idea as yet and may
never know.”
Alex, who worked on board HMS Nottingham, based in Portsmouth, Hampshire had
been enjoying the end of a month’s leave when the tragedy occurred.
Dad Paul, 44, said: “He’d been on holiday with friends in Magaluf, and he’d
been back here for three weeks, just enjoying his leave and spending time with
his family.”
Alex, whose father is an ex-serviceman, had always wanted to join the Navy,
since going on board HMS York with his uncle when he was 14 years old.
Fiona said: “He always wanted to be in the Navy from the time he was a young
boy, and he loved it,” said Fiona.
Alex was born in Portsmouth on October 31 1984. His family, originally from
Cambridge, returned to the city when he was aged 18 months. He went to St
Philip’s School, Vinery Way, Romsey, from the age of five, and Coleridge
Community College, Radegund Road, Coleridge, until he was 16.
He
joined the Navy three years ago, and recently travelled to Egypt, and New
York, as well as serving in Iraq.
Friends and family described him as someone who was popular, fun loving and
always cheerful.
Paul said: “Whatever he did, he did it with a smile on his face. I don’t
think anybody he ever met had a bad thing to say about him.”
Fiona said: “Everyone we spoke to at the funeral, when you mentioned him by
name, they just smiled and I think that just sums him up.”
Although his main passion was the Navy, his parent said he enjoyed everything
he tried his hand at, whether it was golf, football, fishing, or running.
Alex was also very close to his two brothers, railway worker Daniel, 23, and
16-year-old Craig, a student at Long Road Sixth Form College in Cambridge.
A
coach-load of his colleagues attended the funeral, and his best friends from
the Navy were the pallbearers. His coffin was draped with the Union Jack and
carried a sailor’s cap.
Fiona said: “The lads and girls that came from Portsmouth were just
fantastic.
“They did a fantastic job. They really did us proud. They showered us with
gifts and memories, and they had done so many thoughtful things to show us how
much they cared for him and how popular he was.
“The captain said if they’d been able to, they would have brought many more,
but they could only bring one coach.”
Paying tribute to Alex and the funeral, Chief Petty Officer Taff Dorrey said
he had always “lived life to the full.”
He
said: “If there was a laugh or a joke going on, he always seemed to be
involved.”
Alex’s brother Craig movingly recounted a day he will always remember when his
brother took him to the Isle of Wight.
He
told the packed church: “Most of all, I think everyone will remember Alex for
the way he had a smile for everything. He always looked on the bright side.
“This is why I will always miss him, my brother, my best friend.”
Charity offer support
Alex’s parents have
been collecting donations for CRY – a charity which offers support to families
who have suffered a loss to Sudden Death Syndrome.
Sudden Death Syndrome (SDS) is an umbrella term used for the many different
causes of cardiac arrest in young people.
Up
to eight people a week in the UK die from SDS, making it the most common cause
of unexpected death in those under 30.
One victim was Daniel Yorath, brother of ITV’s sports presenter Gabby Logan.
Around 700,000 people in the UK suffer from arrhythmia – a disturbance in the
heart’s rhythm – in which severity can range from a minor health inconvenience
to a fatal rhythm disturbance.
The most common causes of arrhythmia include heart disease, coronary artery
disease, heart valve disorders and congenital heart defects.
Symptoms a patient with arrhythmia experience include palpitations, dizziness
and blackouts or they may occur only as a sudden death.
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