As
I sat there the priest
was concluding with the
idea that David’s hockey
and football clubs could
organise some sort of
fundraising event(s) for
CRY which would really
show our respect and
love for David and his
family. So the seed was
sown!
Bognor
Town Ladies Hockey Club,
Coach Jerry and
Middleton & Bognor
Hockey Club got their
heads together to make a
plan. It was really
helpful to focus on this
event and channel
emotions so positively.
Jerry put
together a team of
“celebrity” hockey
players - local England,
South of England and
Sussex players who all
knew David, to battle
against David’s team,
Middleton & Bognor Men’s
1st XI.
Local
business were enticed
into donating to this
event (venues,
advertising, printing,
shirts, auction items,
BBQ food, etc. were all
gratefully received) and
Sussex Umpires arranged
two umpires for the
match and donated to CRY
generously.
The
special day arrived and
we were blessed with a
warm sunny day, surely
arranged by David
himself! David’s
family and the priests
were guests of honour
and were introduced to
the teams before play.
David’s brother, Luke,
was playing in David’s
place.
Noisy
crowds lined the pitch,
happily chucking money
into the collecting
buckets; the atmosphere
was electric, especially
during the one minute’s
silence, when only
birdsong and distant
sounds of children
playing could be heard.
The
match was played in the
spirit of good
competition and fun, of
course the crowds were
cheering David’s team on
with great gusto. The
score was not overly
important as Jerry’s
"celebrity" team slotted
home several expertly
placed goals. But when
Middleton & Bognor
managed to scramble a
goal the crowd went
crazy!
In
the last five minutes of
the match all the
Middleton & Bognor
substitutes ran on to
try and get another goal
against the formidable
opposition but found
themselves defending a
short corner as the
final whistle sounded.
Jerry asked Luke to take
this shot at goal. The
crowd went quiet and
fingers were crossed as
Luke stepped up to this
task. As he scored a
brilliant goal the
cheers were deafening -
surely deafening our
David whereever he was
watching from.
The
local press were there
to record the event,
along with some local
camera enthusiasts. It
was great to see so many
images of this event all
over Facebook
afterwards.
So
with the match over, we
all went to the
clubhouse to tuck into a
delicious BBQ and well
deserved drinks. Jerry
was the auctioneer, and
the clubhouse was packed
tight with would-be
bidders. There were some
excellent donations,
such as a glider flight,
dinner for two, full
massage, hockey sticks
and kit, tennis and
squash rackets, etc.
England Hockey had
donated an England shirt
signed by the captain.
Portsmouth FC had also
donated a signed shirt.
The
most sought after item
though, was an original
hockey action painting
by a local well known
artist. He had managed
to capture in the
figures a good likeness
to David, Luke, Jerry’s
sons and my own two boys
- all local players.
David’s Mum, Gabby, had
set her heart on this
and got husband, Jes, to
bid to dizzying heights.
Little did they know it
had already been decided
to give this painting as
a special memento of the
day’s event in memory of
David.
With
the match, BBQ and
auction over it was time
to count up the amount
raised for CRY. With a
preliminary count of
over £2000 everyone
was totally amazed.
There were tears in many
eyes as people realised
how much respect and
love David had earned in
his short life.
Pat
Simmonds
Captain, Bognor Town
Ladies Hockey Club

Middleton & Bognor

Jerry
Cox Invitational Team