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It is estimated that every week eight apparently
healthy young people in the UK, aged between 14 and 35, drop dead from sudden
heart failure. The charity CRY supports the families of such victims and
campaigns to provide screening for young people to detect previously
undiagnosed heart problems. Now, a talented 13-year-old schoolgirl from Essex
has compiled a book of celebrities’ favourite inspirational quotations to help
raise awareness of CRY, and the risk of sudden cardiac death in the young.
When Julie Tanner was just
five, Andy Gard, a 17-year-old friend of the family, died suddenly of heart
failure, alone in his bedroom.
Andy, who lived in Frinton,
was a fit and healthy student, who had just taken his 'A' levels and was
planning to go to university. He was a keen hockey player, and was about to
go for a game of tennis when his sister found him slumped on his bed. For
reasons that are still unknown, his heart had stopped. It was two days before
his 18th birthday.
Andy’s sudden and unexplained
death affected Julie so deeply that she became involved with CRY (Cardiac Risk
in the Young), the charity which aims to raise awareness of and prevent Sudden
Death Syndrome, as it is known, which kills up to eight young people a week in
the UK.
At
seven, she began editing the children’s page of CRY’s magazine, writing jokes
and compiling word searches. She’s even interviewed major celebrities,
including the charity’s honorary president Ian Botham, and Olympic champion
rower Sir Steve Redgrave, a patron of CRY.
But, last year, Julie
(left), who is a pupil at Colchester County High School for Girls, decided
to attempt a far more ambitious project. She had the idea of compiling a book
of celebrities’ favourite inspirational quotes, to be published to coincide
with CRY’s tenth anniversary.
Julie, who lives in Kirby-le-Soken,
near Frinton, wrote to around 500 celebrities, including the Queen, the late
Pope John Paul II, and Tony Blair, asking for quotes that have inspired them
if life. She got more than 100 replies, which she has now compiled into a
book, entitled 101 Reasons To Get Up In The Morning.
The book went on sale in November, and is selling
incredibly well – almost exhausting its initial print run of 2,500 copies.
For Julie, it has been a fantastic achievement, and her school nominated her
for last year’s Colchester Youth Award – but sadly, she was ineligible, as she
didn’t live within the borough!
Julie wrote to celebrities
from all walks of life, from politicians to sportsmen. Those who replied
include Tony and Cherie Blair, the Archbishop of Canterbury, Sir Michael Caine,
Hugh Grant, Julie Walters and the late Sir John Mills. Pope John Paul did not
reply in person, but Julie was sent a kind letter from the Vatican,
encouraging her in her enterprise and sending blessings to her family.
“I’d have liked to have got
the Queen, but she did send a lovely letter, as did other members of the Royal
family, saying she couldn’t supply a quote, because of protocol,” says Julie.
Julie was amazed by how much
care some of the celebrities took to come up with a suitable quotation. “You
could tell some were really heartfelt,” she says, “Most did sound as if they’d
really thought about them. I was pleased about that because I didn’t want a
load of quotes that didn’t mean anything.”
It took her 14 months to write
to the celebrities and receive replies. It has taken a lot of hard work and
commitment – on top of coping with homework demands – but Julie says it has
all been worthwhile.
“It’s been really exciting to
come in after school and see what’s arrived,” she says. “Every evening, I’d
rush up to my bedroom and tear open the post. Once I got ten quotes in one
day! Most of the celebrities took the trouble to write a personal letter,
which I was really pleased about.
“Val Biro, the children’s
writer who created Gumdrop, drew a little caricature of himself inside
Gumdrop, his own 1926 car, which was really sweet. And Dave Pelzer, who wrote
A Child Called ‘It’, sent me a copy of his book all the way from
America. He said he was so proud of the work I was doing to help others.”
Some celebs came up with the
same quotes, which made for some strange bedfellows.
Former Ipswich Town captain
Matt Holland and Noel Edmonds both plumped for: “The only places success comes
before work is in a dictionary!”
Ice-skating champion Jayne
Torvill, Michael Howard MP and Doran Bryan all came up with, “God, grant me
the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the
things I can, and wisdom to know the difference,” while actor Richard Briers,
Sir Derek Jacobi, the late Sir John Mills, Val Biro and Honor Blackman all
chose quotations from Shakespeare’s Hamlet.
Surprisingly few of the
quotations were overtly religious. Only Sir Cliff Richard, children’s author
Anne Fine and the Archbishop of Canterbury, Dr Rowan Williams chose biblical
quotations, although Delia Smith quoted a religious poem by Gerard Manley
Hopkins, entitled God’s Grandeur.
Other celebs looked to the pop
world for inspiration. Top Gear’s Jeremy Clarkson quoted Pink Floyd’s,
Time, while Radio 2’s Jeremy Vine opted for Morrissey (“There’s more to
life than books, but not much more”). Actor Nigel Planer quoted John Lennon’s
“Life is what happens while you’re making other plans,” while Sir Alan
Ayckbourn went for Joan Baez: “You don’t get to choose how you’re going to
die, or when. You can only decide how you’re going to live. Now.”
Some contributors came up with
the wonderfully quirky, off-the-wall quotes which score ten out of ten for
originality.
“I think the funniest and most
unusual came from Gary Lineker,” says Julie. “His quote was, ‘When Fate hands
you a lemon, try to make lemonade’!” Gold-winning Paralympic athlete, Dame
Tanni Grey-Thompson quoted her grandfather: “Aim high, even if you hit a
cabbage.” Boris Johnson was inspired by his grandma, who told him, “Do
remember, darling, it’s not how you’re doing, it’s what you’re doing.”
One of the most moving
quotations was a poem by Mary Frey, submitted by Tony Benn. It reads:
“Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there, I do not
sleep.
I am a thousand winds that
blow.
I am the diamond glint on the
snow.
I am sunlight on ripened
grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the
morning’s hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled
flight.
I am the soft stars that shine
at night.
Do not stand at my grave and
cry
I am not there, I did not
die.”
Politicians,
says Julie, were particularly keen to reply. All three of the main party
leaders sent in quotations, as did David Blunkett, Charles Clarke, Lord Coe
and Tony Benn. But her favourite of all is the quote sent in by Tony Blair.
In a hand-written letter, he quoted Sir Mat Busby: “Aim for the stars. If you
aim for the stars, you might have a chance of hitting the ceiling. If you aim
for the ceiling you might fall flat on your face.”
His was one of the first replies Julie received.
His wife Cherie’s came in just before the deadline, several months later. It
read, “What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared
to what lies within us.”
Many of the celebrities were
approached through friends of friends, or supporters of CRY. Julie thinks
some of the letters she sent must have been to the wrong addresses, which may
be one reason why some did not reply. She was disappointed, however not to
have been sent a quote from Harry Potter creator, JK Rowling. “She sent me a
letter saying she was too busy, which was a shame, because I’m such a fan,”
says Julie.
Some had to be literally
tracked down by CRY supporters. “Somebody said they thought Tanni
Grey-Thompson lived in their area, so she and her husband just drove round the
streets trying to find her house,” says Julie. “Eventually they found her
inside her garage, decorating. They went up and asked her to give them a
quote. And she said ‘Yes’!”
Julie’s aim in creating the
book was not only to raise money and awareness of CRY and its work, but also
to provide a book of uplifting quotes to bring comfort to the thousands of
parents who lose their children, without warning, from heart failure. Sudden
Death Syndrome has been likened to cot death in babies, in that it strikes
apparently healthy young people out of the blue. Up to eight children and
young adults, aged 14 to 35, drop dead every week in the UK from sudden
cardiac arrest.
Young athletes can be
particularly vulnerable. Sports presenter John Inverdale, who has also
contributed to the book, had a friend, Howard English, who suddenly died in
his arms during a rugby match, aged 32. Then years later, history was
tragically repeated when Howard’s son, Seb, also dropped dead playing rugby,
at the age of just 15. Howard’s genetic heart condition had not been
diagnosed correctly in his post-mortem, so Seb was never tested.
There are around 11 conditions
which can lead to sudden cardiac death in the young, including inherited forms
of heart muscle disorder and irregular heartbeat. Hypertrophic Cardiomyopathy
(excessive thickening of the heart muscle), is the most common of these
conditions – research has shown that one in 500 people have it. Some young
people may experience fainting, dizziness, palpitations or chest pain, but
often, they may have no symptoms at all.
Andy Gard, Julie’s friend, was
fit, sporty, and looking forward to going to university when he died eight
years ago. His mother, Caroline, is now an active supporter of CRY, and is
the charity’s eastern division representative.
“He was perfectly healthy,”
says Caroline, who lives in Frinton with her husband Peter. “He’d complained
of feeling a bit nauseous that morning, which we’d put down to indigestion. I
just told him he shouldn’t have bolted down his food.”
Andy returned from his summer
job that afternoon. It was a Sunday, and his parents were out playing
tennis. His younger sister Cathy was home when he came back from his summer
job, grabbed some bread and butter, and went up to his room to get ready for a
tennis match with a friend.
“He’d been up there for a
while, and then another friend called round, and Cathy called up to him,” says
Caroline. “There was no reply, so they went up to his room, and found him
slumped on the bed.”
Paramedics were called, but
could not revive him. An autopsy revealed he’d probably had an earlier heart
attack, which had resulted in heart failure.
“The coroner queried whether
he’d had a recent blow to the chest, but I’m sure he didn’t says Caroline.
“They couldn’t find a real reason for why this had happened. We were
screened, but no genetic abnormalities were found.”
The shock of losing an
apparently healthy child is horrendous. “It’s devastating,” says Caroline.
“You can’t understand what’s happening. It doesn’t seem real. You associate
heart problems with older people, or people who are unfit or obese. But when
it happens to someone who seems perfectly well, it’s very hard to accept.”
Although many young people die
on the sports field, when their hearts are under pressure, they can also die
in their sleep. “There seems to be no particular pattern,” says Caroline.
“Some parents who have lost children just go into their rooms in the morning,
and find them dead.”
Sometimes, heart failure can
be caused by an extremely rare disorder. Sometimes, the causes are never
discovered.
“A post-mortem may not be able
to determine the precise cause of death, and the coroner will just put it down
as natural causes,” says Caroline. “An electrocardiogram test (ECG) would
have been able to pick up any abnormality while the victim was alive, but once
the heart has stopped beating, it cannot be detected.”
CRY is campaigning for
teenagers to be routinely screened in schools to check that they have no
undetected heart problems. Caroline has succeeded in setting up an ECG
testing programme at Colchester General Hospital which can screen young adults
aged between 14 and 35. For £35, they are given an ECG, and fill in a
questionnaire about their medical history, lifestyle and any health concerns
they might have. The ECG is then sent off to an expert cardiologist in
London, who will check the ECG for any abnormalities.
Caroline believes Colchester
is the only hospital in the country where such a service is provided.
Although it’s run by CRY, rather than the NHS, it is staffed by Colchester
hospital technicians, who are paid for their services. “It’s a way of giving
local people a chance to make sure their bodies are functioning properly,”
says Caroline. “After all, we give our cars a yearly MOT, so why not check
out our hearts?”
The clinic is held every other
month on a Saturday morning at Colchester General, and can be used by anyone
of the right age group, whether or not they live locally. Anyone interested
should contact Caroline on 01255 673598 for an appointment. The next session
will be held on January 14.
Ideally, Caroline would like
to see routine ECG screening being offered to young people by the NHS –
particularly athletes.
“In Italy, anyone taking part
in organised sport is given a health check every year,” she says. “In this
country, some of the big sporting authorities now organise this, but only for
elite athletes. I’d like to see it for everybody. The Government has so far
resisted, I’m sure because of the cost and the demands on NHS resources. But
this would be genuine proactive, preventative health care, and would help save
young lives, because treatment is available if a heart problem is detected.”
With Caroline’s and Julie’s
help, local awareness of Cardiac Risk in the Young is growing. Julie has now
attended four local book signings – one in Frinton, and three at her school.
Julie, 13, has always wanted
to be an author – she has written short stories ever since she was very
young. Now, having gained confidence compiling her book for CRY, she has
already embarked on two novels. “English is my favourite at school, and I’d
love to be a children’s author one day,” she says. “I’d like to write books
for young adults, and perhaps for younger children too.”
She will continue to work for
CRY, however, and still edits the children’s page. She was particularly
touched when last, year, while she was handing out leaflets at a CRY stall in
Colchester, a little girl called Chelsea came up and said how much she liked
Julie’s page.
“She was about eight, and had
lost her brother to sudden death syndrome, and she said she was an avid reader
of the magazine and loved my page. She said she particularly enjoyed the word
search, so the next month, I put a little message at the bottom of the puzzle,
just for her.”
She truly hopes that families who have lost their
children to sudden cardiac death will find hope and comfort from her book.
The contributions she particularly enjoyed include Tony Blair’s “Aim for the
stars” quote, Ann Widdecombe’s “Carpe Diem”, and Pam Ayres’ “Oh to be half as
wonderful as my children once thought I was, and only half as stupid as they
think I am now!”
And Julie too has found
personal inspiration from compiling the book. “It’s made me want to achieve
my goals,” she says simply.
One reply which meant a lot to
Julie came from Ivan Henderson who was her MP until last year, and who has
actively supported CRY. “His baby had to be rushed to hospital soon after he
was born, and while he and his wife were in Great Ormond Street Hospital, they
saw this poem on a windowsill,” says Julie. It is entitled Slow Dance.
Have you every watched kids
On a merry-go-round?
Or listened to the rain
Slapping on the ground?
Ever followed a butterfly’s
erratic flight?
Or gazed at the sun into the
fading night?
You’d better slow down
Don’t dance so fast
Time is short
The music won’t last.
Do you run through each day on
the fly?
When you ask, ‘How are you?’
Do you hear the reply?
When the day is done, do you
lie in your bed
With the next hundred chores
running through your head?
You’d better slow down
Don’t dance so fast
Time is short
The music won’t last.
Ever told your child, we’ll do it tomorrow?
And in your haste, not seen
his sorrow?
Ever lost touch, let a good
friendship die?
‘Cause you never had time to
call and say ‘hi’?
You’d better slow down
Don’t dance so fast
Times is short
The music won’t last.
When you run so fast to get
somewhere
You miss half the fun of
getting there
When you worry and hurry
through your day
It’s like an unopened gift,
thrown away.
Life is not a race
Do take it slower
Hear the music
Before the song is over.
101 Reasons to Get Up In the
Morning, by Julie Tanner, is available from book shops, or from Canterbury
Press, price £7.99. ISBN 1-85311-673-4.
For information on the ECG
screening clinic at Colchester, ring Caroline Gard on 01255 673598. Contact
CRY via their website at:
www.c-r-y.org.uk
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