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Wednesday will be a year to the day since
much-loved Folkestone Invicta striker Paul Sykes, collapsed and died.
He was laying against another of his old teams,
Margate. It was later discovered he had a heart defect. Paul,
who was 28, left a widow, Carly and their young son, Thomas.
The family launched a fund-raising drive to raise
money for research into heart conditions.
Paul's brother, Peter, 27, and Patrick, 24, are
hoping to raise £1,200 by running the London Marathon for a charity called
CRY - Cardiac Risk in the Young.
CRY advocates screening families for possible
heart defects, especially children.
Peter's wife, Clare, 27, said: "We were frightened
of the answers, but we had to know what lay in store for the children."
Fortunately, the screening revealed the family
were all right.
CRY helped the Sykes family so much they decided
to raise money for further research.
Peter and Clare, who live in Monins Road, Dover,
with their children, Owen, three and Holly, one, have been astounded by the
generosity of everyone who has pledged help and support.
The family want to thank everyone who is
supporting them and say the ready offers of help remind them just what am
impression Paul made on people.
Naturally, it has still been a difficult year.
Peter said: "I cannot begin to explain how we have
got through it.
"But everyone, especially my parents, Patricia and
Peter, have been so strong. I am so glad that he achieved so much in
his life, by always being on the go and getting out and doing the things he
wanted to.
"On the pitch, he could get excited and shout, but
when the match was over he would be the first to go up to the other team and
offer a handshake."
The football world has reacted with sadness to
Paul's death. Tributes have been posted on football forums from teams
all over the UK, including Arsenal and West Ham. The FA has also
posted a tribute, as has Peter Taylor, the man who briefly took charge of
the England team.
FACT FILE
CRY - Cardiac Risk in the Young was founded in May
1995 to raise awareness of cardiac risk in the young, including conditions
such as Sudden Cardiac Death and Sudden Death Syndrome.
Every week eight apparently healthy young people
die in the UK from undiagnosed heart conditions.
The charity offers support to those who have
suffered a loss, by developing a network of families in similar situations.
It also calls on trained counsellors.
CRY promotes heart screening and EGG testing
programmes and also donates medical equipment to doctors' surgeries and
hospitals. The charity relies on donations.
Anyone who would like to help the Sykes'
fund-raising effort can contact Peter on 07787 326617.
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