Huw Lewis
On October 21st 2002, my
brother Huw Lewis died during a game of football in Saudi Arabia, where he
had lived and worked for over four years. He left his pregnant wife Sarah
and 5 year old daughter Molly, as well as a devastated set of parents,
siblings, friends and colleagues. Huw's death was additionally hard to
take in as he was extremely fit, having played semi-professional football
for many years. He was also training to take part in the 2003 London
Marathon.
Huw
was not just my brother, he was also my best friend, and we had grown up
playing sport together, drinking together and laughing together. Our
closeness was compounded by the fact that whilst I studied at University
in Swansea, Huw was living and working in the city and then, when I moved
to Cardiff to do a Masters degree, Huw also ended up moving to the city
with his work. Therefore, even throughout my student days, Huw was a
massive part of my life.
All I remember
about the moment Sarah phoned me and my girlfriend Lucy to tell us that
Huw had died, was sinking onto the kitchen floor in our house and uttering
an almost primeval scream that came from deep inside me. Somehow, Lucy
then got things together enough to drive me to London to pick up my
younger sister Becki before we all set off on a rather surreal 5 hour
journey home to my parents in Wales.
After the initial
shock had subsided, a massive number of questions arose. Why did he die?
What caused his death? Is there anything we could have done about it?
Would he have felt anything? By a horrible irony, Huw's wife Sarah was a
qualified cardiac nurse and she immediately knew that it could be HCM.
With this information in hand, I started searching the internet for any
other information. Pretty quickly, I came upon the CRY website and,
needing to speak to someone who may some more information, I phoned their
number.
My first phone
call was with Alison Cox, who instantly put me at ease with her ability to
both console me but also supply me with facts and information about HCM.
Over the course of the next couple of weeks, things became clearer.
However, our family had to endure a horrible 2 week period following Huw's
death before we could even get his body flown home from the Middle East.
It was only when his body was returned and an autopsy was undertaken that
HCM was confirmed. Further analysis of his heart tissue confirmed that
Huw had died of HCM.
Following the
results of Huw’s autopsy, CRY very considerately arranged for myself and
Becks to visit the British Olympic Medical Centre at Northwick Park
Hospital. Once here, we met Greg Whyte, CRY Chairman, who was extremely
welcoming and willing to answer any questions we had. We both then had an
ECG and an echocardiogram, followed by a consultation with Mr Nigel
Stephens. Thankfully all the tests showed no sign of any abnormality,
which obviously reassured both us and our families. My elder sister Sian
also had an ECG and echocardiogram a few weeks later and again, no
abnormalities were detected.
Approximately 6
weeks after Huw's funeral, me and Lucy flew to Australia for a
long-planned 2-month break to travel and watch the England v Australia
cricket series. The timing of this was fortuitous as it gave us both an
opportunity to get away from home and take in everything that had
happened. However, the trip was particularly poignant, as Huw had also
been a massive cricket fan and had regularly travelled the world with the
'Barmy Army' to watch England play cricket, taking a very large flag with
him displaying the name of our cricket club back in Wales.
A few weeks
before his death, he had sent this flag to me with the strict instructions
to hang it at all the grounds we visited. Therefore, on Boxing Day at the
Melbourne Cricket Ground, traditionally the biggest day in the Australian
cricketing calendar, I was full of emotion as I managed to secure our flag
in a prime position on the main stand.
This trip also
provided me with a lot of time to think and it was during this trip that I
vowed to do all I could to assist CRY in their work in raising the
awareness of HCM and associated conditions that contribute to Sudden Adult
Death Syndrome.
Jonny Lewis
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