Pete Reynolds
Pete
died suddenly on 13 October 2004. The shock, and despair his family, girlfriend
and close friends feel cannot be expressed fully in words.
Pete was an outgoing and lively
27year old who lived his life to the full. He was a ‘natural’ at most sports and
extremely fit. A black belt in Tae Kwon Do, he also played football and was a
regular at the gym where he thoroughly enjoyed weight lifting. In 2003 he
completed the Stroud half marathon and also came third in the Tae Kwon Do
British Championships held up in Birmingham. There was no sport Pete didn’t
enjoy and had recently become skilled at snowboarding and climbing.
For several weeks leading up to Pete’s death he was experiencing
spells of dizziness, especially when he was training at the gym. Over a number
of years he had also experienced the odd heart palpitation or two, some lasting
for just a short time, and some lasting longer. With never a day’s sickness in
his life, he unfortunately ignored these warning signs until it was too late.
The evening before he died he went to the gym as usual, following which he
telephoned his girlfriend Becky to say he was experiencing heart ‘flutters’,
dizziness and had a ‘burning’ throat.
Pete was found dead the next morning lying at the bottom of his
bed as if he was asleep. As a family, we ask ourselves ‘WHY’.
Why did such a loving and fit son/brother pass away at such a
young age?
Why were we not at his side when he probably needed us most?
Why did he not visit his GP?
We
found out about CRY shortly after Pete died, and read about all of the other
young lives that have been lost in such a similar way. The contact we have
received from the team has helped us to stay sane. We waited six weeks for
tests to be completed – all came back clear so we will never really know why and
how Pete died. All the symptoms point to his heart but we are told it is
difficult to test for heart defects once a person has died.
Now that Pete had gone, our lives are on hold. We are unsure of
how we will go on, and what to do now. Our only focus is to ensure Pete didn’t
die in vain. We can’t help questioning ‘What if we knew about SADS and it’s
symptoms? We would have made him go to the Doctors.’ It seems that even a
majority of the Medical Profession are unaware of it though. We will never be
able to bring him back, but we can hopefully help to save others by making them
more aware of SADS, working with CRY and helping to get the correct procedures
in place for such deaths.
Fundraising and awareness has already started. Pete’s brother
Andy runs a Tae Kwon do club, and has access to 50 Instructors in the Southwest
so is contacting them, Pete’s girlfriend Becky works in PR and has a lot of
contacts in the Bristol area, and Andy’s girlfriend is a Personal Trainer in
Gloucestershire. Together with Pete’s mum and dad, we will be spreading the
word and raising as much as we can.
Pete’s Family |