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Popular Stuart Attridge's family and friends were
plunged into despair when the 25-year-old collapsed and died from an
undiagnosed heart condition during a game of football.
But five years on from his death, they have turned
tragedy to hope, and raised more than £50,000 in his name.
Stuart's mum Rosemary has become a representative
for charity Cardiac Risk in the Young (CRY) and hopes to raise another
£10,000 at a charity dinner for the cause next month.
"Stuart was all you could ever want in a son," the
64-year-old said.
"There are still days where I can't really believe
he's not going to come through the door."
Stuart, from Reigate, was a senior manager at the
Reigate Manor Hotel in Reigate Hill, which his parents have run for the past
33 years. He was playing football at Brockham Lane when he collapsed
on January 29, 2006.
CRY aims to reduce the frequency of sudden cardiac
death in young people by raising awareness and encouraging people to be
screened.
Mrs Attridge, of Orchard Road, Reigate, added: "I
have taken great comfort in doing all I can for CRY. If we have saved
one family from going through the absolute agony of losing someone like we
did, it will be worthwhile."
"He was running across the pitch and he just
dropped dead," said Mrs Attridge.
"They said he was probably dead before he hit the
ground, it was just like turning of a light switch."
His parents' anguish increased when screenings
showed Stuart's younger sister Lucy suffered from the same condition.
She has since had a defibrillator fitted which should kick in if symptoms
strike.
"Probably the most difficult thing is knowing that
at every family occasion, like Lucy's wedding, somebody from your close
family circle is not going to be there," said Mrs Attridge.
"But all of his friends have been absolutely
brilliant and they suggested we do another fundraiser to mark five years
since his death.
"We are fortunate because we have the space and
our suppliers have donated the food. Hundreds of people we know in the
area have been enormously supportive."
the charity dinner for 170 takes place at the
Reigate Manor Hotel on February 4. Any local business wishing to
donate prizes should contact Mrs Attridge on 01737 241 707.
Cardiac Risk in the Young
Stuart died from Arrhythmogenic Right
Ventricular Cardiomyopathy (ARVC).
Every week about about 12 apparently healthy
young people die from undiagnosed heart problems.
Cardiac Risk in the Young (CRY) carried out
ECG's on 7,067 people aged between 14 and 35 last year. 23 were found
to have potentially life-threatening conditions.
It costs £35 for a CRY ECG. For more
information go to www.c-r-y.org.uk
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