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Charity Halloween Fancy Dress Ball in memory of David and Steve Williams

 

31st October 2008

My daughter Lisa and I had been thinking about doing a Charity Halloween Fancy Dress Ball for sometime, in memory of my son David - who had died suddenly on 14 December 2005 aged 16 - and also in memory of Steve, their father, who had suffered a heart attack and died in March 2008

 

Towards the end of July 2008 this year we decided to go ahead.......

 

We had never done anything like this before so we were a little bit anxious about everything, but we soon got into the swing of things and started planning the event. 

 

We found a venue which was nice and accommodated 100 guests. We decided on a sit down 3-course meal, with disco. 

 

We priced it out and then we produced a ‘flyer’ and started sending it out to friends and family asking them to extend the invite to their friends and family. Very quickly we started to get positive responses and soon our 100-guest list was complete.

 

We planned to also run a raffle and managed to get a number of prizes donated from local companies, who - when I explained what it was for - were very generous.

 

On the day, we decorated the hall and awaited our guests with anticipation!  When people started arriving we could not believe the effort that everyone had gone to, their costumes were unbelievable, everyone had really got into the theme of Halloween.

 

After our guests had eaten,  Lisa welcomed them all and explained that although it may seem odd to have a ‘Halloween’ event, in fact years ago it was believed that on Halloween the veil between our world and the spirit world is at its thinnest, and this is why we had chosen Halloween.  I followed the ‘welcome’ by talking about CRY and showing the Phillips and David Walliams DVD. I talked about the CRY screening centres and encouraged everyone to look at the website.   I then talked about the '12 per week' and my helpers gave each guest a postcard to post to their MPs. 

 

After that I spoke about my son David and the impact that it had had on me and all my family. I showed a family photographic slide show of my son’s life as he had grown up. 

 

The whole presentation made a huge impact on many people in the room, many of whom I had never met before.  Both Lisa and I felt a great sense of achievement in what we had done - so many people said how fantastic it had all been and how proud we should be feeling. 

 

I wouldn’t say it is the easiest of things to do, but it is so rewarding and it gave both Lisa and I an amazing sense of purpose…. Everyone is looking forward to next year's event!!!!

 

We have raised in excess of £1,500 for the David Williams Trust Fund within CRY.

 

Sue Williams

 

 

 

 

 

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