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"When your son dies it's not the sort of thing you
can imagine - it's the worst of all your fears."
Those were the words of York dad Russell Marden
whose 18-year-old son, Mark, died of sudden heart failure while he was
studying at University in Canterbury.
Mark, a former pupil at both Huntington primary
and secondary schools, was in the first year of an occupational therapy
degree at Canterbury Christchurch University and living in halls of
residence.
He had sent text messages to his family saying he
felt under the weather one evening and went to bed that night, but didn't
wake up.
Last week at an inquest Canterbury, his family -
dad Russell, mum, Alison and 16-year-old sister Laura - heard Mark had died
of acute myocarditis - a rare viral infection that can affect anyone.
Russell, 47m, of Bracken Close, Huntington, said:
"I can't pretend it's not been a hard time for our family. We've got
through it really by being together and supporting each other.
"It's been absolutely awful.
"As a parent it's pretty much the worst of all
fears.
"It's like the feeling you get in the pit of your
stomach if your child goes missing in a shopping mall, but it won't go away.
"Mark was a fun-loving lad, really likeable, and
didn't really have a bad word to say about anybody."
Mark had a very close group of friends at home and
university who are now trying to raise funds in his memory for the charity
CRY - Cardiac Risk in the Young, since his death in February.
At Huntington Primary School last weekend, pupils
braved the rain to raise £452.21 for the charity's national heart screening
programme by taking part in a sponsored space hopper hop.
Russell said: "I would like for some good to come
out of something so tragic and if it stops another life being lost and
another set of parents and friends going through what we have then so much
the better."
On July 15 Russell will be taking part in the CRY
Heart of London Bridges sponsored walk which is 8km and takes in eight
London Bridges.
They walk hopes to raise £30,000 for CRY to raise
awareness of conditions which can lead to young sudden cardiac death.
Anyone wanting to sponsor him can log on to
www.justgiving.co.uk/markmarden
Richard Tither, head of sixth form at Huntington
School, said: "Mark was a lovely young man.
"He was involved in lots of activities working
with others that were less well off than himself.
"He was hard working and always cheerful, always
polite. I know a lot of his friends have really been knocked back by
what has happened."
In February, The Press reported how a young York
barman died suddenly, aged only 21.
Jamie Tidswell, from Acomb, died after collapsing
at home.
A post-mortem examination revealed he had been
struck down by viral myocarditis and The Press set up an online book
of condolence.
What is Acute Myocarditis?
Acute Myocarditis is an inflammation of the
muscular walls of the heart. It may be due to a virus infection.
Patients are usually relatively well and seldom
present to hospital at an early stage.
There have been sudden deaths associated with
exceptional physical exertion in patients with viral illnesses. Every
week, eight apparently 'fit and healthy' young people die of undiagnosed
heart conditions in the UK.
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